Thursday, December 22, 2011

December 22nd - Part Two

I am terrible with a camera.  I never remember to take it with me, but even when I do, I forget to pull it out and both our other computers with all our photographic memories of the last 10 years are on virtual lock down until we can crack their codes... so with that being said:  This is the one post I wish had a thousand pictures on it, but instead -- it will have one.

Mr. Thompson and I are celebrating our 10 year anniversary today... and as he is at work this morning, I am being flooded with thoughts of joy and gratitude and awe, not only for my husband, but of my Great Big God who works everything together for the good of those who love him.

The odds were stacked against us.  There is only ONE thing we had going for us, and that is Jesus.  I think (I could say know) we were the only two people on our wedding day that knew without a doubt (call us naive if you will) that getting married was the one thing we could be sure was the one right decision we would ever make.

And we knew it the next day and everyday since.

For most, the story of two kids knowing each other for the whole of 4 1/2 months on the day they committed themselves to each other, expecting a baby in 7 months, and not having more than "a few dimes" to their names at any given moment... is a recipe for disaster.

I was going to say "on a road less traveled" -- but that's not quite an accurate statement now-a-days... I will say: On a road that is far less appealing yet, for some reason, traveled frequently, I am so thankful that God has shown us His merciful favor and given me the husband of any girls dream.  And I am still in awe, everyday, when I wake up next to the most faithful, sacrificing, loving, beyond respectful, beyond patient, and beyond HANDSOME man that God saw fit to bless the likes of ME with.

Though our life as Mr. and Mrs. Thompson has been pockmarked with hardships... our love has only grown deeper with each trial and the "D-word" has never so much as even been whispered.  No cliche about it.

I am giving all the glory to God!  There is no way that in our falling-short-every-second-of-the-day efforts, that a marriage like ours is possible... even with the most ideal of beginnings -- aside from the strength from Jesus and grace of God.

Courtesy of Ben's phone... we got one picture.

We went to the hills for a night.  The first anniversary we've gotten away for, even if just 30 minutes away, since we only had one sweet baby boy eight years ago.  Now we've got 4 and 3/4 sweet babies, and I never dreamed of a life so hard... nor of a life so fulfilled. 

I love you Ben Thompson.  I thank you for giving me the best 10 years of my life this far and I pray... ohhhh, I pray... for at least 100 more.  I'd still have chosen you in a heart beat and knowing what I know now, it would have been even quicker than that.


  1. I should also, say by no means do I think our marriage is perfect... we get irritated, just like in any other. It's just that God qualified the unqualified for this marriage and I am so blessed by that!

  2. I knew your were perfect for Ben the day i met you! I still remember you two dancing at Bex and Mike's wedding!!! God is so gracious with us!!!

  3. I agree with quick courtships that you KNOW are right. :) Hubby and I met March 22, started "dating" (he was in Nevada, I in Maine) on April 26, met in person June 10, got engaged September 21, and got married, November 13. :) That's six and a half months for us. Good for you, girl. Way to "know." :) (And SO HAPPY to see you writing again.)

  4. (Or I should say, happy to see you IN writing again. I know you've been writing a little. I've just been in blog-hiatus land myself.)

  5. Alicia, I just stopped by because I was checking my site stats and saw that there were visitors led to stillbirthday from your site.

    Thank you SO VERY MUCH for sharing stillbirthday on your very beautiful blog - and for the lovely way you honored your man in this post! I love it.

    Blessings to you and your family,
    Heidi Faith

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